Follow up for this.... @Dafteaux
We work closely since we co-chair in the same department. He was just transferred to my department in the middle of March. We do work together sometimes overtime like 2 hours after work. There were a couple of times that we finished our work is done but we stayed like a hour just talking about from ex's to almost anything. He opened up one time and he was carried away and showed his hatred to his ex. I gave him a side hug. I did a triple tap on the lower arm and a double squeeze on the upper arm to console him and said that he will alright. The next time, it was me who talked about my ex and almost everything, and he gave me a side hug too. Honestly, I didn't get to see his reaction coz I didn't see his face really well and looked in her eyes, I don't want to let him know I am checking his reaction.
I even commented the next day that we better get it fast and get home---- a bit of apologizing for keeping the conversation going and we stayed an hour longer the other days. He said, don't worry, those were good conversations. Same things happen every day when we see each other --- the body and toes towards me when we converse, the splayed open legs when I was talking infront of him, when we sat on the bench talking, he was in number 4; when we talk about work stuff , he still looks at me without even blinking but I am just not even letting him notice I feel giddy inside.
When he is with other men and women at work, he is more of work and does not display that other part of him. One of co-worker even commented that Mr. ---- doesn't say that much. In the back of my mind, wrong--he says a lot with me. We were fixing an activity in the gym for our sports fest, we played competitively and even hit me playfully with a light, bouncy ball on my head.
In one of our conversation where he gave me an advice ---he said " I want you to be happy". It just melts my heart.
We still have a long way ahead at work. This is our first year of working. He told me that he wished that we will still work together longer. This is the time when one of my boss in another branch offered me a same ranked position but in a different location. I obviously did not accept it because I need to stay in my current department because I am vying for a promotion and I can't do it if I move department a lot.
My question is: is there something do you think that he feels for me? I am not so very good in detecting man if he is interested although I have learned Vanessa's non verbal signs--- this is the first time, I have learned about it.
I also don't want to have the wrong signals.